<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Extravagant Giving</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/</link>
	<description>Christian Personal Finance - Financial help, debt help and other financial resources</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:03:07 -0600</lastBuildDate>
	
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>By: Sunday gathering - Busy, busy</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12596</link>
		<dc:creator>Sunday gathering - Busy, busy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 22:28:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12596</guid>
		<description>[...] Extravagant Giving @ Christian PF [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Extravagant Giving @ Christian PF [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: How readily do you accept gifts from others? &#124; Be Diligent...</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12538</link>
		<dc:creator>How readily do you accept gifts from others? &#124; Be Diligent...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 14:03:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12538</guid>
		<description>[...] post yesterday on the Christian PF blog got me thinking about a fairly common practice. Let me ask you this: When someone offers to do [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] post yesterday on the Christian PF blog got me thinking about a fairly common practice. Let me ask you this: When someone offers to do [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Angie</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12535</link>
		<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 12:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12535</guid>
		<description>correction...i would NOT be surprised if you reported something awesome happened in the life of the giving couple in the near future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>correction&#8230;i would NOT be surprised if you reported something awesome happened in the life of the giving couple in the near future.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Angie</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12534</link>
		<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 12:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12534</guid>
		<description>Praise God.  I have been on both ends of giving and it is a blessing from both ends.  Obedience is better than sacrafice and God will always honor and bless obedience.  I would be surprised if you posted that something awesome has happened for the couple in the near future (as we know it might not be financial).  Through this site and your blogs you are being faithful to God and He honors that as well, this is just another way he is choosing to bless you for your obedience.  When you left your last job you could have gone to another area of corporate america, but instead you are educating His people and not be selfish about how you do; that is big and an act of faith as well.  

I love this story; how awesome!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Praise God.  I have been on both ends of giving and it is a blessing from both ends.  Obedience is better than sacrafice and God will always honor and bless obedience.  I would be surprised if you posted that something awesome has happened for the couple in the near future (as we know it might not be financial).  Through this site and your blogs you are being faithful to God and He honors that as well, this is just another way he is choosing to bless you for your obedience.  When you left your last job you could have gone to another area of corporate america, but instead you are educating His people and not be selfish about how you do; that is big and an act of faith as well.  </p>
<p>I love this story; how awesome!!!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: 4jacks</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12526</link>
		<dc:creator>4jacks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 03:54:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12526</guid>
		<description>I&#039;m going to side with Lynn here, 

I&#039;ve seen God do some wierd crazy miraculous.  But something Always clicks, the question of WHY is always answered.  God&#039;s ways are his ways, but he always proves himself to be great. 

Bob, I&#039;m not 100% up to date with your story, but wouldn&#039;t the time of one year ago put you at the time when you guys were much more at the beginning of your financial change?  

In other words, would that $1k be a lot more significant a year ago? 

And now that you have the money now, whacha going to do with the winfall =)  Is their some ministry need or personal need that happens to be about $1k ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m going to side with Lynn here, </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen God do some wierd crazy miraculous.  But something Always clicks, the question of WHY is always answered.  God&#8217;s ways are his ways, but he always proves himself to be great. </p>
<p>Bob, I&#8217;m not 100% up to date with your story, but wouldn&#8217;t the time of one year ago put you at the time when you guys were much more at the beginning of your financial change?  </p>
<p>In other words, would that $1k be a lot more significant a year ago? </p>
<p>And now that you have the money now, whacha going to do with the winfall =)  Is their some ministry need or personal need that happens to be about $1k ?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ann</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12517</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 20:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12517</guid>
		<description>This is a great story about the importance of changing our mindsets from how can I be blessed to how can I be a blessing to someone else. Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great story about the importance of changing our mindsets from how can I be blessed to how can I be a blessing to someone else. Thanks for sharing!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Infinion</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12515</link>
		<dc:creator>Infinion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 19:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12515</guid>
		<description>Lynn,

I also think that maybe the reason that $1000 is used frequently (at least in the two data points we have here), is that is was in fact, significant for both parties involved.  To me, it&#039;s a lot of money.  It took faith for me to part with it.  To the recipients, it was a lot of money.  It might have taken some faith on their part to accept it.  It might have been &#039;significant&#039; enough that it really made a difference in a situation that a $100 gift might not have.  It might have been significant enough (they know we aren&#039;t wealthy) to boost their faith to really follow God in their calling.  

Maybe it wasn&#039;t significant, and was really just a nice round number though.  My wife and I almost always settle on amounts that are divisible by $100.  Maybe God figures that it&#039;s hard enough for us to listen to him, maybe he&#039;d better just round to the nearest hundred to make it easy for us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lynn,</p>
<p>I also think that maybe the reason that $1000 is used frequently (at least in the two data points we have here), is that is was in fact, significant for both parties involved.  To me, it&#8217;s a lot of money.  It took faith for me to part with it.  To the recipients, it was a lot of money.  It might have taken some faith on their part to accept it.  It might have been &#8217;significant&#8217; enough that it really made a difference in a situation that a $100 gift might not have.  It might have been significant enough (they know we aren&#8217;t wealthy) to boost their faith to really follow God in their calling.  </p>
<p>Maybe it wasn&#8217;t significant, and was really just a nice round number though.  My wife and I almost always settle on amounts that are divisible by $100.  Maybe God figures that it&#8217;s hard enough for us to listen to him, maybe he&#8217;d better just round to the nearest hundred to make it easy for us.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Infinion</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12514</link>
		<dc:creator>Infinion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 19:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12514</guid>
		<description>I would agree with Kita on the dollar amount question.  I don&#039;t see any special significance with the amount in either story, other than that was what we felt God told us to give.  On the same thread, we feel that God gives us relatively specific dollar figures for special offerings at church or for missions work through our association programs.  My wife and I commonly consult God in circumstances like this, and usually come up with the same figures, or at least in the same ballpark.  We don&#039;t look at our checkbook, or at our budget, or at how much someone or some organization asks for, we seek God for that information.  We are not wealthy by most standards, and $1000 is a significant amount to us, you are correct in that.  But that&#039;s not to say that $100 is insignificant either, and that would have made any more sense to me if that was what God had asked for.  

I used to be really hung up on answering all the questions that couldn&#039;t be answered.  I always searched for some logical answer or some logical explanation.  When I finally figured out that I couldn&#039;t find the answer to every question, and that in some cases, I may never know, and that only God knows some answers, I was at peace with it all.  In fact, at that point, many of my questions were finally answered, only many not in the way I had originally thought they would be answered.  

I also thinks it takes some faith on both parties for something like this to work.  We called the couple we gave to before we sent them a check.  We knew they might have a hard time accepting help from US.  We called to explain we felt that God was leading us to give some of HIS money to them.  I think that was the key.  We wanted them to know it wasn&#039;t us doing this, we were simply the vehicle to complete God&#039;s plan.  When they understood that, we were sure they wouldn&#039;t just rip up the check when they got it.  The couple we gave to is faithful, and they understood exactly what we were saying, and accepted the gift without question.  

I suppose to me, $1000 is a lot of money.  But to God, it&#039;s just what we need.  He owns it ALL, who are we to say if we will or will not give it, or if we will or will not accept it.  Do I have $1000 sitting around to give someone?  No, not really.  But if that&#039;s what God tells me to do, I&#039;ll be able to handle it, and I know God will provide.  My response would be no different if the amount were $10 or $10,000.  It&#039;s not mine to begin with; what God chooses to do with it is fine by me.  With a fair amount of faith, and some experience to back it up, I know that if I listen to what God tells me, he&#039;ll be faithful on his part of the deal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would agree with Kita on the dollar amount question.  I don&#8217;t see any special significance with the amount in either story, other than that was what we felt God told us to give.  On the same thread, we feel that God gives us relatively specific dollar figures for special offerings at church or for missions work through our association programs.  My wife and I commonly consult God in circumstances like this, and usually come up with the same figures, or at least in the same ballpark.  We don&#8217;t look at our checkbook, or at our budget, or at how much someone or some organization asks for, we seek God for that information.  We are not wealthy by most standards, and $1000 is a significant amount to us, you are correct in that.  But that&#8217;s not to say that $100 is insignificant either, and that would have made any more sense to me if that was what God had asked for.  </p>
<p>I used to be really hung up on answering all the questions that couldn&#8217;t be answered.  I always searched for some logical answer or some logical explanation.  When I finally figured out that I couldn&#8217;t find the answer to every question, and that in some cases, I may never know, and that only God knows some answers, I was at peace with it all.  In fact, at that point, many of my questions were finally answered, only many not in the way I had originally thought they would be answered.  </p>
<p>I also thinks it takes some faith on both parties for something like this to work.  We called the couple we gave to before we sent them a check.  We knew they might have a hard time accepting help from US.  We called to explain we felt that God was leading us to give some of HIS money to them.  I think that was the key.  We wanted them to know it wasn&#8217;t us doing this, we were simply the vehicle to complete God&#8217;s plan.  When they understood that, we were sure they wouldn&#8217;t just rip up the check when they got it.  The couple we gave to is faithful, and they understood exactly what we were saying, and accepted the gift without question.  </p>
<p>I suppose to me, $1000 is a lot of money.  But to God, it&#8217;s just what we need.  He owns it ALL, who are we to say if we will or will not give it, or if we will or will not accept it.  Do I have $1000 sitting around to give someone?  No, not really.  But if that&#8217;s what God tells me to do, I&#8217;ll be able to handle it, and I know God will provide.  My response would be no different if the amount were $10 or $10,000.  It&#8217;s not mine to begin with; what God chooses to do with it is fine by me.  With a fair amount of faith, and some experience to back it up, I know that if I listen to what God tells me, he&#8217;ll be faithful on his part of the deal.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Lakita</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12513</link>
		<dc:creator>Lakita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 19:31:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12513</guid>
		<description>This is an amazing testimony, thank you for sharing!

@Lynn,

I&#039;ve been on the giving and receiving end ~ sometimes it&#039;s $10, sometimes $100 and yes sometimes $1000.  I don&#039;t beleive the number is an significant as the act of obedience.

While it is sometimes difficult to accept a financial gift, I have learned that when people are acting out of obedience, I don&#039;t want to hinder their act by not accepting.  This does not mean that the Lord will not deal with me to give it back in some other way.  It all comes down to obedience.

Blessings!
Kita</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an amazing testimony, thank you for sharing!</p>
<p>@Lynn,</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been on the giving and receiving end ~ sometimes it&#8217;s $10, sometimes $100 and yes sometimes $1000.  I don&#8217;t beleive the number is an significant as the act of obedience.</p>
<p>While it is sometimes difficult to accept a financial gift, I have learned that when people are acting out of obedience, I don&#8217;t want to hinder their act by not accepting.  This does not mean that the Lord will not deal with me to give it back in some other way.  It all comes down to obedience.</p>
<p>Blessings!<br />
Kita</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Lynn</title>
		<link>http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/comment-page-1/#comment-12512</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 18:46:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.christianpf.com/extravagant-giving/#comment-12512</guid>
		<description>Maybe someone can explain the amount of $1000?  Is there significance to this or is just a coincidence that this is how much the couple gave and how much Infinion said he was going to give the couple randomly.   To me that is a lot of money and if someone gave it to me I would not even be able to accept it no matter what the circumstances.  If they didn&#039;t take it back I would find a way to give it back to them - directly or indirectly.   I understand what is driving the couple to do this and I guess I could sort of understand it if the person giving was well off or came into some money and the person receiving was struggling but that doesn&#039;t seem to be the case.   I always enjoy the giving stories on Dave Ramsey&#039;s program around the holidays but that involves a large tip to a needy waitress, a donation to a child in a 3rd world country of $50 that could build an entire house etc.  Seriously, I could understand $100 or something on that level, but $1000 is a significant amount of money.   I have to admit that as a Christian I just don&#039;t get giving someone a gift of that amount of money.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe someone can explain the amount of $1000?  Is there significance to this or is just a coincidence that this is how much the couple gave and how much Infinion said he was going to give the couple randomly.   To me that is a lot of money and if someone gave it to me I would not even be able to accept it no matter what the circumstances.  If they didn&#8217;t take it back I would find a way to give it back to them &#8211; directly or indirectly.   I understand what is driving the couple to do this and I guess I could sort of understand it if the person giving was well off or came into some money and the person receiving was struggling but that doesn&#8217;t seem to be the case.   I always enjoy the giving stories on Dave Ramsey&#8217;s program around the holidays but that involves a large tip to a needy waitress, a donation to a child in a 3rd world country of $50 that could build an entire house etc.  Seriously, I could understand $100 or something on that level, but $1000 is a significant amount of money.   I have to admit that as a Christian I just don&#8217;t get giving someone a gift of that amount of money.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
